He is the most important person in your life, and yet, you are clueless about how to make him happy on his birthday. If this is your story, then you definitely are in need of ideas.
You promised to take care of him, to be with him, to celebrate his joys and share his sorrows. This birthday, take enough time out from your schedule to plan your husband’s birthday well, and ensure that it is a memorable day for him and you. Here are a few ideas.
Plan for a special trip. Is he an outdoorsy type of a person, or does he prefer to spend his time sightseeing? What kind of places does he love – the mountains or the beach or something else altogether? Think of all these, and you’ll have an idea of where to take him for his birthday. You don’t have to plan the trip yourself either, hire the services of a travel agent for planning the details of that special getaway plan. Plus, it needn’t even be a trip that will take you out of town. Arm yourself with a picnic basket and head off to a secret destination that you chanced upon or even a place that is one of his favorites. And please leave all the excess baggage of work issues behind.
There are times when you may feel you are stuck with a ‘Mr. Impossible’. If you cannot really decide the kind of gift to buy, why not opt for a gift basket? Gift baskets are easily available at any gift shop. However, a homemade gift basket would be an even better idea. Here, you can shortlist your own choice of gift items that can be included in the basket. Men and their love for gadgets is nothing new to any woman. Make a collection of the gadgets he really needs. An iPod or even an accessory for his car will bring a smile to his face. Collect these gifts and arrange them in a basket. Cover with a cellophane and tie a beautiful red bow. Voila! Your basket is ready. Just like that.
When was the last time your husband gave in to some pampering? Long, long time? Why not give him a gift certificate for a spa? And maybe, even you can join him and get a grand spa treatment with an expert masseuse working his/her magic on you? If spas are not really his idea of relaxation, you can opt to be his spa expert at home. Make his day really special by giving him a soothing massage. A candle-lit, home-cooked meal for the night is the best way to conclude the day. Turn on the soft lights and play some romantic songs. Dress up in your best attire. Pop the champagne and have a romantic time at home. He will surely treasure this moment forever.
Plan a treasure hunt. Drop in clues that he needs to decipher. Watch the excitement as he struggles to locate his birthday gift. Along with the gift, leave a special note for your husband that describes what he means to you. Pour out all your thoughts and feelings on paper. Sharing your innermost thoughts in the form of a love letter or a poem, is a priceless gift you can give, rather than something bought off the shelf.
Slave For You
There’s something very kinky about this one if you get it right. Wake him with a passionate kiss in the morning. And after? There could be love coupons involved, adult games played, dirty secrets spilled. No harm in donning the French maid costume either or something else that will get his heart racing. And then the whole day (and night) through you do what he wants. Cook his favorite meal? Done. Watch his favorite movie? Done. A lap dance perhaps? Done. Done. Done. The potential that the statement ‘slave for you’ has, cannot be explained. It has to be experienced.
Make your husband’s birthday a special one with these ideas. I am sure you will have loads of fun. Best of luck!