To sweep your husband off his feet is never bothersome. I've seen my mother. Never went beyond a wrist watch, a formal shirt, a pen, or a wallet for my Dad. Astonishingly, he used to love it with all his heart. May be it's my Mom's love for him that counted. May be their relationship is beyond gifts. May be, they're content with it. To tell you the truth, things are different (easy?) when you have spent a lifetime with your husband. However, planning a birthday for your husband in the initial years of marriage is no easy job. I very well know what brings you here. An innovative clue that makes your husband's day a memorable one. Just an idea that may or may not be different, but is enough to bring a smile on his face. An experience of extravagance, a few moments of togetherness, a day that explains how much you love him. Well, to give a helping hand in making your love's day a memorable one, here I share some extremely romantic birthday ideas. For husbands, it's not the gift, but the thought that counts. While for us women, it's the other way round. Arr, correct me if you must.
Call His Friends and Family Without Him Knowing. After a long, tiring day of work, when he comes back home, he sees that the door is open, and hears some murmurs. He's skeptical, but knows something's cooking, and when he enters, 'SURPRISE!'. He sees his loved ones all around. His best buddies, his office colleagues, and of course, his family members. You dance the night away, have a music session with the bathroom singers in your family, and have a delicious dinner. Romantic never means it ought to be just you and him. It means what all you do for him on the big day, and this gesture will outline the fact better than anything else.
Kick the Heat Up a Notch. Ahem, just married, are we? Want no family and friends to accompany you two? First things first, ask him to take an off from work on his birthday, and tell him you have a surprise waiting. Then, book a room in a luxurious hotel, if you see money sitting in your bank account, and spend the entire day with him. Enjoy the entire day basking in the amenities of the hotel, and when you're done, go back to your room and spend some 'quality time' with each other, if you know what I mean. Snuggle in, make love, and create some romantic moments. Don't forget to order a champagne!
Make Love, in the Kitchen. Hey, don't you get ideas! We all wish that a birthday never ends. So, what to do in order to seal this romantic day in your partner's mind? Well, cook something that's his favorite. Get him along, ask him to help you out, and start playing with knives and spatulas. You know, this might not be a that great an idea, but it'll ensure a series of romantic moments, when you teach him how to make steak fries, or how to bake a cake, or how to grill chicken (provided you know that). After the day ends, you know he knows how to cook. Be proud of yourself, woman!
A Treasure Hunt. What's a birthday without a birthday gift? Nothing. But obviously, you will gift him something that he had been longing for since ages. Buy it if your bank balance allows, and hide it somewhere. Throughout the day, keep hinting him, dropping him clues in the form of handwritten notes, get your gray cells into action, and during late evening, after dinner, gift him that. Now, make sure the gift is worth the chase. I mean, you really can't make him trail the clues all throughout the day, just for a pen or a pair of socks! You need to make your gift desirable and worthy of a treasure hunt.
Give Up on Something He Hates About You. Nothing's better than emphasizing what your husband's happiness means to you. If you have a habit that he doesn't like, something that you do a lot often, but disappoint him, this is the perfect day to give it up on. Moreover, if there's something you hate and he loves, make a sacrifice, and enjoy it with him. Play Call of Duty all day, watch a Baseball match, enjoy everything he likes (okay, try at least). This will make him respect you for whatever you will do. And hey, don't start hating it the moment the birthday ends. Show him that it is all for him that you've done everything you used to hate once.
Ideas are plenty, because your love for him is beyond measure. When rigors of life take away romance, and you often feel that the vigor is missing, you know that your husband's birthday is the best day to do something to bring it all back. With that said, allow me to conclude by saying that leave all work issues behind, shove away his negatives, and embrace all positives. The day will automatically turn into a special one, believe me.